Digital Dating with Tandem Lingerie Shopping
Sometimes in life we often just luck out. We find a romantic match in the next door neighbor, a family friend or co-worker. Spending time together in person comes naturally and easily. Alternatively, you may find significant mileage between yourself and your significant other. Countries and even oceans may lie between you and your sweetie. Technology is shrinking our world all the time and these relationships are becoming more and more common place. If you should find yourself with a far flung love, you will be challenged. Travel time and expense will preclude many conventional dating scenarios. Actual face-time becomes absolutely precious and must be well planned for.
If you're dating from a distance there's a fair chance you came to find your partner through some kind of machine magic or some such medium. Phone, chat, text and beyond are further cinching the physical boundaries between us all the time. Hanging out together all day long is no longer any big trick for the right set of gadgets and it's no secret that togetherness fuels intimacy! You might actually find that you have a richer relationship with someone who lives halfway around the planet than with your plain old every day local friendships.
Sustaining a long distance relationship still requires a fair bit of ingenuity and creativity though. Physical dating engages all of the senses while digital dating relies primarily on just sound and sight. Making the most of sensory limitations on a digital date can create a seamless experience of immersion. This allows the participants to set aside their awareness of what is lacking in the experience and focus on what is present. Make the most of your available senses. What's missing will fade into the background. If you're lucky enough to be caught up in the moment what's lacking will be filled in by your imagination.
In any case don't get caught up in lack and stunt the growth of your relationship. Getting to know your partner's likes and dislikes can be done quite effectively from a distance with collaborative browsing. This is as true for browsing houses online as it is of browsing hairstyles. The point here is that shooting links to one another during the conversation provides a stream of visual input and adds depth to a virtual date. Even your lack of physicality may be remedied with a flirty and suggestive round of browsing lingerie or swimwear shops.
The very beginning of a long distance relationship is usually a natural time for long, deep conversations. Countless hours on the phone or chatting online truly spent listening and sharing will form the foundation - or not - for things to come. Phone foreplay or even phone sex naturally stems from this intimacy and sets the stage for the day when distance isn't an issue. When you're ready to graduate your remote romance to the next level, nothing beats the potency of the lingerie shopping date.
Show your sweetheart something you like. Perhaps an elegant corset is your personal pinnacle of allure. Send the link to your sweetheart via internet messaging, texting, or even e-mail will do. How does the model resemble you? Do you love the color and fabric? What does your date appreciate? Perhaps a teddy? Find some frivolous bit of boudoir fun to discuss. You might touch on shoes, panty cuts, make-up, role-play, fetishes, costumes, even body issues - the list is lengthy enough to keep you both quite busy. These kinds of intimate details are perfect for turning up the heat while simultaneously discovering the real person at the other end of your flirtation. Maybe leather and chains are a bit much for you but you discover that it's your date's ultimate fantasy. This could be an important detail to consider before further investing in a blossoming relationship.
Perhaps you're planning for a first big get together or a reunion after many years apart. How much better might that encounter be if you could shop a bit ahead of time for some outer and underwear that's absolutely guaranteed to drop your date's jaw? Guaranteed because they told you and showed you ahead of time. Considered in this light, tandem digital window shopping is an absolute must.
Have you been dating for a while? Have you had the pleasure of visiting in the flesh? You may have started out browsing and made some great virtual memories together. Why not revisit that saucy strapless bra and panty set that sent the situation over the edge a few weeks back? Follow through with the purchase, thus turning a mutual fantasy into a reality and something to look forward to when next you see one another. Make it a gift. Who doesn't love a gift? Don't forget that a gift of lingerie is a gift for both your partner AND yourself!
Here's another dating scenario: your relationship is feeling some strain as you make a transition from near-proximity to long-distance. This can be a very difficult change to weather and you would do well to amp up your efforts at intimacy. Tandem lingerie browsing and shopping is a genius idea for digital dating which does just that. Flirt your way to a purchase then striptease your way out of that slinky new slip for the webcam to your level of comfort of course. It's almost as good as being there!
To sum up, dwelling on the distance between you is just negative and tiring, both things which don't help anyone to feel better about the situation. It's far better to stay positive and focus on making new memories. Make the most of sight and sound, don't take your partner for granted and always remember to have fun. With a little creativity and an upbeat take on life any relationship, no matter the distance, can flourish.
About the Author:
In addition to her freelance projects, Wynter Stark is a copyright writer for Touch of That Lingerie. A student of both fashion and life, her approach to both is all about the journey.
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